When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you are. If you have a positive attitude youre more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guys.
First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self-respect. As we already discussed, confidence and self-respect are vital. A positive attitude also directly affects how other people feel when theyre around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic? If you have, did you notice that after a while his or her mood started making you feel down or uncomfortable or irritable? Chances are its happened to all of us. So remember, if for no other reason than to not be a dark cloud hanging over everyones head, try your best to be positive and have a good attitude.
But it goes much further than that. When youre trying to make your best impression on a woman, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If youre not giving off those positive vibes well pick up on it and most likely steer clear of you.
The bottom line: women like to find a man whos stable. Part of what women judge stability on is your work. No, this doesnt mean you need to be a rocket scientist. It simply means that if youre changing jobs every couple of months, or getting let go for poor attitude or poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then were going to think twice before we get involved with you. Remember, women are looking for a partner; a 50/50 relationship.