Matt Adams’ Dating Mentorship & Coaching Program

This course is for men in Boston and only runs a couple of times a year. If you do not live in Boston, Ma, you want the online version of the course, found here.

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Matt Adams’ Dating Mentorship Program is the most thorough course ever developed for transforming your life from an average guy who gets stick in the friend zone with women he is attracted to, to a high-status, attractive man who naturally attracts women in abundance. You can be the guy who always presents his best self to the world and who everyone sees as high value man. You can be the guy women find attractive and want to date. You can be the guy who courageously pursues the woman he is interested in until you create a relationship with her.

Before you read any further!

I don’t train men to be robots. You won’t be fed tired “lines” that try to force you to be someone you know you’re not. You don’t need to wear fuzzy hats or put on eye liner or anything else weird like that. You want to be you, plain and simple. And if you do want to be a robot, you’re going to have to leave my site and go somewhere else right now!

 Still here? Good, I kind of knew you would be. 😉

Before you get the low down on this course, you must understand my approach to coaching. For the last 3 years, I’ve studied the most effective life coaching techniques available in the world right now, and I’ve warped them to fit the context of dating for men. What I do as a coach is help you to go inside, find the best pieces of yourself, and assist you in refining those parts to the best of your ability.

With that as my mindset, I’ve taken over 2 years to painstakingly developed a course that will drastically improve your skills with women, all while building a better lifestyle for yourself. A lifestyle where you will naturally find women in abundance. I’ve broken down the fundamental skills to excruciating detail, so that they are easy to learn and instill into your consciousness, and eventually into you unconsciousness as habits.

On top of that, I want to offer something truly and uniquely special with this course for guys, because I genuinely care about helping you reach your goals. After 2 full years in development, I’m proud to present my 3-month program, Matt Adams’ Dating Mentorship Program.

This course is for you if:

  • You’re frustrated with your lack of success meeting women and tired of being alone.
  • You seek enrichment in all facets of your life.
  •  You’re looking for long-term guidance to master the social arts from an expert who gets results.
  •  You want women to be abundant in your life, and have them be a by-product of your life rather than the focus or purpose of your life.

If you’re not familiar with me, check out the testimonials from the guys who have have taken my workshops. Hear the results they got from working with me in their own words. At the bottom of the page you can find many testimonials of my personal coaching sessions, crash courses and mentorships.

Here’s the skinny on my 3 month program.

  • Every week you’ll get a new ebook that focuses on a new topic. Each book continues to stack your skills one on top of the next. The titles are as follows:— Book 0 – Course Introduction
    — Book 1 – Mindsets That Attract Women
    — Book 2 – Becoming Fascinating To Women
    — Book 3 – Making Your Place Women Friendly
    — Book 4 – Attracting Women In One Second – Part 1
    — Book 5 – Attracting Women In One Second – Part 2
    — Book 6 – Spot & Respond To Her Sex Signals
    — Book 7 – How To Talk To Her And Win Her Over
    — Book 8 – An Approach That Compels Her
    — Book 9 – Touches That Turn Her On
    — Book 10 – Dates That Get Her Ready
    — Book 11 – Ruin Her For All Other Men
    — Book 12 – Give Her The Relationship You Want
    — Book 13 – The ProcessHere’s a free ebook for you to get a feel for how they are in the program.

  • In addition to the reading material, there are also seminar videos for you to watch for additional training. Here’s an example of the type of content you’ll be receiving.[s3mv]StoryTellingEnd.mp4,480,360,false,false[/s3mv]
  • In addition to the ebooks and seminar videos, you’ll have assignments videos such as this one.[s3mv]Week00Day4.mp4,480,360,false,false[/s3mv]
  • In addition to the ebooks, seminar videos and assignments videos, I have recorded some audio interviews with notable names from the dating community, including talks with:– Fade a.k.a. Tim Strong
    – Magic PUA
    – London Paladin a.k.a. Jonathan Green
    – Nick Quick a.k.a. Adonis a.k.a. Charming Rogue
    – Steve Piccus (from
    The Game)
  • In addition to the ebooks, seminar videos, assignments videos, and audio interviews, and special for the guys here in Boston, we’ll also be going out together just about every week for day game and night game training (Friday night and Saturday afternoon). This long-term personal training is crucial for you to make solid progress in your learning.
  • One final point. Once you have access to the content in the program, you’ll always have access to the material, even after the course is over.

Once you sign up, you’ll immediately have access to Week 00’s assignments so you can get a head start on them. The last day to sign up is Saturday, May 19th. We’ll have a class meeting and go out that night. On Sunday, May 20th, Week 00 begins. You’ll have until May 26th to complete Week 00’s assignments. Our next outings as a class will be Friday, May 25th and Saturday, May 26th, and you’ll receive Week 01’s content on Sunday, May 27th. This pattern will repeat until the end of the course.

There’s only room for 10-12 students and the first round filled up fast.

By now you’re thinking Ok, this all sounds good, but how much is it going to be? Well, considering that my last crash course went for $350 (and sold out), and the first round of this program went for $400 (plus fee) and completely sold out. You can’t get this kind of training for this price literally anywhere in the world. For a comprehensive 3 month course, it’s pretty darn reasonable, and I’m sure you’d agree.

If you have any questions, you can leave a comment in the box below.




I compared this to a major company’s 8 week program at a cost of $12,000, plus expenses. Then I ran some numbers and put the value of the mentorship and coaching program at around $20,000. Actual cost $400.

Nu’f said.

– Mark, Boston, MA


Very grateful for the help you have given me. This course helped change my life!

If you want to make progress quickly, you should find a coach/mentor who already has the success you want – and who can show you how to get there. Someone who can reshape the limiting beliefs which are preventing you from having what you want right now. Someone who has a vision for you that is even greater than the grandest vision you have for yourself.

Matt’s course is all of these things. And he grossly undercharges for his work, in my humble opinion.

I have made massive progress in the past few months in all areas of life, in large part because I am currently working with four different coaches/therapists (and that’s not counting Matt, as I’ve completed his course already).

Fear is truth on pause. To anyone thinking about the course: You guys should sign up and go for it!

– Joe, Boston, MA


Seeing that the next round of Matt’s class is coming up, as a participant in the first round I wanted to chime in.

Basically I just wanted to say I had an amazing experience. I had been banging away with approaches but had gotten increasingly frustrated by a lack of results despite my efforts.

Over the three months of the course I was really pushed through my sticking points regarding escalation in a profound and important way. So my results went from a handful of flakey numbers to (finally!) getting real results.

And that progress happened because I had a group and motivation to go out every week. And I had Matt live in person pushing me through my fear at key points (a RIDICULOUS value add to have that for 12 weeks when many dating companies charge 3k+ for a weekend bootcamp of in-person coaching!).

And also, the daily exercises really helped me work through some issues of shame and fear I had. They were intelligent, well honed, and very practical. I especially thought the work on beliefs and goal setting were worth the price of the course in and of themselves. You might have other things you want to work on but the course is so comprehensive I bet you’ll find some answers.

Now don’t get me wrong – it was hard. A lot of work – I didn’t do every exercise or make it to every outing. I was frustrated at times. I was pissed off at times.

But it worked. And not just for me. I saw a bunch of the guys make huge (and pretty inspiring) progress.

-Vince, Boston, MA


Matt’s class was worth the time and the money invested. I made every effort to attend each session and found that over the course of the session I had learned various skills that were of value.

I had become persistent with women, I had gained new found confidence in my ability to interact with them, and I had gained a sense of social intelligence.

As a life long introvert, this was a complete 180 from what I was used to accomplishing. Furthermore, I found the personalized attention during in-field coaching was exactly what I needed to get over the hump of learning these valuable skills in dating and relationships.

– Mike, Hartford, CT


I’ve spent a good amount of money on courses, and none of them ever seemed like they ever took ME into consideration. They always propounded a rubric of things to say and do, which always made me feel like I had to be someone else in order to have the success with women that I wanted. Like I needed to put on a freaking furry top hat or do magic tricks to get the girl. Tricks. That’s what the courses always seemed like to me… and it was daunting.

I signed on with Matt because from the first time he and I spoke about coaching, he always spoke to me on my level, where I was at, how I would benefit from his course given where I was at, and he opened up my eyes to totally new perspectives on dating, which, in the end, were what formed the foundations of the new life I’m living now.

I told Matt that I didn’t need to sleep with 1,000 women, or be some pickup artist. “You don’t have to,” he said. Immediately the pressure was off, and I knew this course would be different. Some guys like the pressure. They perform better and need the big push. — and I’ve seen Matt actually give that big push, and the guys perform as a result — I, on the other hand, needed some internal work, and that stuff can’t be pushed. And Matt knew that. It was like he understood what MY needs were, what I needed, and he met me there.

So… results…

Since going through Matt’s course, I:

  •  am in an open relationship with a wonderful woman (never thought I’d be able to do that before!)
  • am dating multiple women without using tricks, and am able to feel like myself, and just BE myself — and they LOVE it!
  • know that girls will like me when I talk to them
  • have had my first threesome!

Thanks, Matt, for opening up my mind to how dating CAN be… how it doesn’t have to be a set of routines made by someone else. But it can simply be a new way of living my own life, being a better version of myself, and a much more fulfilling lifestyle!

-Ennis, Boston, MA


This class was a lot of fun. Literally every single guy in the program got better and made great strides in their game. Vince illuminated what the overall structure was like, i’ll go in a different direction and give you specific example of the class.

By week 7, every guy had done something awesome, there was no such thing as being afraid to approach women, every guy could hold their own. Week 7 however was something I looked forward to as we would get into detailed specifics about conversation which was a sticking point of mine (we had done a lot prior but this was the next level). The cool thing about the class is that its not just Matt pushing you on class nights and days for 12 weeks its also 12 very detailed and in-depth dating books, each around 100 pages or more of content and then a different exercise each day that week to drill it into your head. Book 7 – “How To Talk To Her To Win Her Over” blew me away.

Not only is this an amazing book, I think its the best dating book on conversation I’ve ever read, and that’s including stuff like Love System’s “Routines Manual” and “Magic Bullets”, John Sinn’s work, which focus directly on convo. The reason I say its the best is because Matt does an excellent job breaking down each concept in a very simple manner instead of making it more complicated than it has to be. For example, I had read about things like Qualification many times, but I didn’t “get it” until I read his breakdown of it. It was an AHA moment for me. I used it to have a seamless one night stand a few days later.

Some of the highlights of this specific book were..

  • A complete breakdown of 2 ways to begin conversations and 3rd way which no one else talks about (and over 20 strategic ways to start conversations within these frameworks).
  • The effective “chunking up/chunking down” concept. That might sound vague, but it’s a cool thing.
  • Everything you’ve wanted to know about how to smoothly go from one topic to the next, the structure of telling stories, how to tell them in a way where people want to hear how they end, how to coldread, and how to use humor.
  • Creating and breaking rapport.
  • etc…

It’s very in depth as you can tell and each book is equally as in depth and covers pretty much ever area of need from fashion to how to have good dates to relationships. I’ll be honest though, some of it I didn’t get much out of but only because I had some of it down already or wasn’t in a position to implement it (making tweaks to my apartment to make it more inviting). That being said, I really feel as if I hardly ever have to read anymore dating books ever again because of the depth of the program. Whatever your sticking point, it will be answered here.

The best part though was perhaps the relationship all the guys formed, by the end of a 12 week trial by fire, it really felt like a brotherhood of sorts. Our final night was also perhaps one the most rewarding and fulfilling nights I’ve had in a while… it also ended in the most hilarious fashion too. But that was just my adventure… I highly suggest you take this class and create your own.

– K, Boston, MA


I recommend Matt’s mentorship and coaching program to all people who are new to dating.

I did a crash course with him and it greatly helped me in my progress. I have also seen the results of the guys who took his class. They have made giant steps.

Don’t view it as a magic pill or an end-all-be-all. View it as an investment in your growth. What Mark says is true, the value is way more than the cost of it. I know it because it was exactly the same with the crash course.

So, if you’re new, feel you’re stuck or making slow progress, consider it seriously.

Jalil, Boston, MA

1 Comment

  1. Rob Virges
    August 12, 2014 @ 11:56 AM

    Hi Matt,

    I was checking out your website, it’s awesome!

    My name is Rob, and I’m a producer for the Craft of Charisma Podcast.

    We started a podcast to help men improve their dating and social skills, and we would like to have you as a guest on the show.

    We can have you call in from anywhere via Skype or by phone to make it easy for you.

    Let me know if you’re interested : )

    Rob Virges
    Craft of Charisma Podcast

    P.S. Here is a bit about Craft of Charisma:

    Cosmopolitan Magazine
    Business Insider
    New York Times


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